So, one night, I tested them. We all went out and got drunk and then came back to our place. We all ended up in the huge bed and started to sleep. Then, I went to the bathroom and stayed there for a while. Then, I burst in and flipped on the lights and saw that they had moved closer towards each other. I know they were screwing around. The next day my boyfriend denied it. So did my best friend.
I don't know what to do. I know they want each other. What should I do?
Stuck in the Middle
It sounds like you are about 13-years -old, so the "drunk" part struck me as odd. If you are not 13, then you have a problem.
First off, letting hot girlfriends around your guy is asking for trouble. Why invite temptation? There is enough of that out there. Remember "Temptation Island?" Maybe it was past your bedtime. Either way, keep single girlfriends and your boyfriend separate if you can. Sure, you can mix the two, but sooner or later, it ends up in a huge catfight, which isn't as sexy as guys would like to think.
The fact that your best friend dresses hot around your boyfriend means you have to be sly. Make plans with her when he isn't around. If he loves you, he will more than likely always adore your cute gal pals, because they will be slightly similar to you.
For now, don't do anything. If they were meant to be together, it'll happen. And don't bring girls into your boyfriend's bed unless you're into sharing.
My boyfriend always asks me to be loud! I am shy and think he may laugh if I suddenly start to moan and talk during sex. Why do men want this? What is the big attraction?
Shy Girl
Don't be so damn cold. Let him have it. Have you ever heard animals fucking? It's loud, naughty and primitive. We're caged in all the time by rules, deadlines and manners. The only time a man can really let loose is in sports or sex (which you can consider a sport if you have enough players involved).
If a man is fucking you the right way, a decent amount of sound should come out of you. The more grunts and groans, the more confident he is that he is doing you the right way.
Silent sex should only occur if you are staying at the in-laws house or if young kids are around. Sex should be the ultimate expressive experience, a real chance to let your hair down and your vowels out. Tell him with moans and naughty words that he is setting you free. If he isn't, then tell him how until he does it right.
Then again, there are men who really like that silent type. If you can't let it out when he's putting it in, then maybe you should find a guy who adores your silence. Sex is a good area to behave like Goldie Cocks, I mean, Locks. It has to be just right for you.
For some reason, I can't make my girlfriend come by penetration. Going down on her gets the job done, but it takes ages and my jaw hurts afterwards. I even get a rash from her stubble.
When she complains to me about not coming, it makes me feel inadequate.
Am I not good in bed? Am I missing out on some sort of secret? She is only 18. I think it's her fault.
Lawrence Faceburn
First, start fucking on the floor. Beds are too soft and she may never feel you properly on a soft mattress. Your cock will seem bigger and harder when you do it on the floor. Have her get on top of you, insert yourself, then put loads of KY Jelly on your lower abs, from the cock up to the navel button. (Hopefully you don't shave that area, as stubble will scratch her clit big time.)
Then, grab her ankles, and slide her back and forth like a cheese grater (she is the cheese, you are the grater). Her clit will protrude in this position and rubbing it against your lower abs should make her come.
Talk dirty to her. Telling her how fucking sexy she is, how you really want her to come all over you. This will help her get there. Try to lick her tits while she is on top. Your hands will be busy holding her ankles and grinding her into your lower abs. Use your mouth to lick and suck her nipples. Your reaching up to suck her breasts will make your stomach muscles harder, which makes it easier to rub her clit properly.
This works, though it may be hard if your belly is out of shape. If you really want your girl to scream for joy, stick with it.
