By Dr. Dot
drdot@drdot.com
www.puredrdot.com

My girl and I are very much in love, but we’ve had better sex before—she used to cum once or maybe twice “per intercourse”—but now I can’t seem to satisfy her so much anymore. It seems that I cum too fast. It’s like I’ve trained my body to enjoy too much too fast, or she’s just too good. How do I get to please my woman again? 

—Quick Shooter Shane 

You should “train” yourself to eat her pussy until she cums before you even get in there. Make it your goal to hear her scream and moan with pleasure, and then celebrate your victory by giving her a good dose of your liquid love. 

I have a problem. I have been with my boyfriend for two years now, and in those two years of having sex with him I have not cum once! I don’t know what the problem is. When we have sex, I can’t feel anything. It’s like it’s numb. … Please tell me what my problem is.

—Numb Nelly

Sounds like you are with the wrong boyfriend if two years have gone by with no orgasm. Ask yourself these questions: Have I climaxed with other men in the past? Can I make myself cum? If the answer to both of these questions is yes, the problem could be that he isn’t doing you correctly. You need to speak up and show him exactly how to make you cum. If the answer to the questions is no, then you need to spend more quality time alone, working on how to trip your own trigger. Once you learn that, integrate it into your sex life, making sure you show him everything. This “numb” feeling and the fact you can’t feel anything could mean he is too boring and/or small for you to be shagging him.

Prior to me, my ex-girlfriend dated guys with bigger penises. She always teased me by telling me it was tiny, and when I broke up with her she told everyone I had a small one. I know I’m a little over five inches and that should be around average, but being told you have a small penis for three years will make you start to fear it is. But now, I have a new girlfriend. I really love her and she loves me. But I just found out that her ex and first boyfriend had a nine inch penis (despite knowing you should never ask about exes). We haven’t had sex yet, but we’re both nearing the point where we want to. Will my five-inch dick satisfy my girlfriend, even if the guy before me had a long willy? Does the vagina get bigger after a big one? I bet I can still give her a rocking time with foreplay or going down on her but she won’t let me because she thinks it’s disgusting. 

Telling a new boyfriend about her ex’s big cock is just as mean as you telling your new girlfriend that your ex was a rich model; it’s just plain evil. You should stop her in her tracks when she does this and tell her, “uh that’s too much information darling,” or “that’s so funny you say that as my last girlfriend’s pussy was much tighter than yours.” You have to convince her to let you lick her pussy. This will be your golden ticket to winning her over for good. Massage her feet for over 20 minutes while she sips some red wine. Lick and massage her calves and thighs and she may not notice when you start to lick her clit, nice and slow, like a cow with a big tongue. You simply have to convince her to let you try. Don’t worry about your cock size; As long as it stays hard and you make her cum, that’s all you need. You should be happy you got rid of that mean ’hole who made fun of your penis size. 

I’ve been seeing this girl for a while now. We met, started kissing, later on sex, you know the score, took our time, etc. etc. When she first started blowing me, she did not swallow. I didn’t mind cause cum doesn’t taste that good to me. Now we have been together for three months and she has started to hold my balls, look me in the eyes and swallow. It makes me feel great. I was in love with her within weeks. I wasn’t sure how she felt about me. I guess what I am trying to ask is does the fact that she has started to swallow (and give other extras in bed) point to the fact that she is really falling for me? A friend (female) told me most girls only swallow for guys they really like. Is this true?

—Spunky Steve 

Whoa, “Cum doesn’t taste that good to me?” Bravo for admitting you taste your own spunk. It takes a real man to do that. Well, I’m guessing it’s your own spunk you’re talking about. Anyways, YES, it means she digs you now, she accepts you and every drop of you. Now don’t fuck it up by asking her “Do you love me?” Just enjoy!