Pisces (Feb. 19-March 20) What began as charming often ends up annoying. That adorable way someone flits from topic to topic, butterfly-like, later feels like a frustrating inability to stay focused. Someone's delightful perpetual lightheartedness could eventually reveal itself to be an unpleasant unwillingness to take anything seriously.
Conversely, you may find yourself appreciating qualities you originally found irritating. My point? First impressions arent everything, at least not with you. In fact, they usually dont have much bearing on how you eventually feel about someone. Therefore, I wouldn't trust them much.
Aries (March 21-April 19) Until someone invents reliable teleportation technology, youre stuck driving, flying, or riding to get from place to place. There are no shortcuts, really. Similarly, trying to find a way to instantly arrive at your mental destination is a waste of time and energy.That doesn't mean you can't be efficient.You can be sure to take the straightest line between points A and B. But forget about skipping even an inch of the mental territory in between. Only the traditional methods of "movement" apply here. Instead of seeking some "easier" way, just get a move onusing those.
Taurus (April 20-May 20) When it becomes obvious that theres little or nothing you can do about a situation besides just ride it out, it will probably be a relief. You can finally stop struggling and shoving up against an immovable wall. At that point youll be freed up to concentrate on other things and just play waitand-see with this particular scenario.Think of what you can get done, now that you can stop doing battle on this one particular front! Don't berate yourself for how much time and how many resources you squandered on a lost cause; instead focus on all the good you can do now that all those resources are at your disposal.
Gemini (May 21-June 20) That hottie you saw from afar has turned out to be a bit more homely upon closer inspection.That's because you think in broad, conceptual patterns, and real life particulars can never quite live up to those ideals.You need to get better at seeing the real beauty in those very details.That might lead to the opposite scenario: the person you thought unremarkable at a distance could be stunningly gorgeous up close. If you can get to such a place, youll be happier, I promise: very few people can live up to pure archetypal ideals; idiosyncratic details, however, are everywhere.
Relish the beauty in those, and you're all set.
Cancer (June 21-July 22) Crying about something hasnt reliably gotten you what you wanted since you were about five years old. Although it may continue to occasionally work, its still the poorest choice of possible methods to get your way. Please dont use it unless you really have tried everything else. This should be a last-resort strategy only, if that. It's just so liable to completely backfire and blow up in your face. While theres a slight chance that inspired pity will swing understanding and aid your waydepending on who you apply it tothe much greater likelihood is that youll earn more scorn than sympathy for your troubles.
Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) Some people just dont know what they like.Their favorite bands are the ones a critic, radio station, or bossy older sister told them to like.They revise their private opinions of art,TV, and other people based on what their friends say. You, my friend, have rarely (if ever) had this problem. You know your own mind very well.Thats why Im surprised that youre so susceptible to manipulation on this one point. Its one thing to be open-minded and flexible enough to seriously consider others opinions. Its another to let them steer you in the completely wrong direction.You of all people should know better.You do, don't you? Prove me right.
Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) Youll put up with a lot of bad behavior from someone you lovemore than most people would tolerate. Subtract that mollifying affection, however, and you might realize just how much youve been taken advantage of. It may go against your very giving nature to think in such bald terms, but have you considered whether you're partaking in a mutually beneficial exchange, or just getting a raw deal? Someone worthy of your adoration probably shouldnt be stretching your good graces so far, wouldnt you agree? Stop letting them. If that means they need to be cut off from your sweetness until they learn how to deserve it, then so be it.
Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 22) Where on the spectrum of truth do you live? On one end, theres just flat-out lying to serve your agenda; on the other, theres being ruthlessly honest, even when it thwarts your own plans. Most of us hang out somewhere in the middle, telling "white lies" when its more convenient than the real story, or withholding information (which isnt quite the same as lying, right?) when sharing it might make things go off the rails. Sometimes it's tricky figuring out what, exactly is the best, or kindest, or most "right" thing to do.Theres no need to embrace extremes this week, but when in doubt about how much to say, lean towards truth.
Scorpio (Oct. 23-Nov. 21) Youve taken a lot of the wrong kinds of vacation in the past. Many have been loads of fun, but you arrived home exhausted and utterly unprepared to resume normal life. Others were restful but mind-numbingly dull. I have to conclude you dont really know how to plan a proper vacation. I'm pretty sure you're not really exercising your foresight and imagination. It might help to think of it this wayinstead of imagining where you want to go, try to envision how youd like to be when you return, ideally: inspired, energized, and full of joy. Then, with that clear image to guide you as you plan your next vacay, figure out where you need to go to get there.
Sagittarius (Nov. 22-Dec. 21) Some people possess remarkable intuition when dealing with other adults, but are worse than clueless when it comes to interpreting a childs needs. Others might be great with kids, or dogs, but flounder like a fish out of water at a cocktail party. Knowing your social strengths and weaknesses is in itself a powerful asset. Its easy enough to place yourself in situations that will make you look good, and practice the ones most likely to make you look like a dying fish. Quit flopping around in scenarios that make you have trouble catching your breath, let alone engaging in fascinating conversations. This week, stick to the scenes where you'll shine.
Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) I woke up this morning convinced Id overslept by several hours, judging by how rested I felt. I glanced at the clock and it was just my normal wake up time. Id somehow crammed more actual rest into my normal sleep window than I thought possible. Imagine if you possessed the ability to do in two hours what would take everyone else three.Whats that? You already have such a talent? I should have known. Luckily this week it should be easy enough to demonstrate that you can consistently do 50% more than the next guy. Make sure you do.
Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 18) If your home was invaded with roaches or ants, would you even hesitate before killing them? What if it was mice or rats? What if a troop of adorable but incredibly destructive baby monkeys came along? Would you feel okay setting out giant traps to break their little necks, or would you finally seek a more peaceable solution, even if its far more complex? This week you have the opportunity and obligation to figure out just where you draw that line between convenience and ethics. I think youll find its not where you thought it would be.
